Single, Spiritual…AND Sexual?

Is it possible to be Single, Spiritual…AND Sexual?

Not if you were brought up to believe that sex before marriage is wrong; if weren’t, your answer may be a positive, pillow-biting “Yes, yes, YES!”

black woman with bible

Meet Suzanne, a young woman raised in the Faith. She desires to serve God in spirit and in truth, but she has one weakness; sexual sin. No matter how hard she tries, she just doesn’t seem to be able to stay on the straight and narrow path! Her spirit is willing, but her flesh is weak. Despite her weakness, she finds it easy to develop a relationship with her spiritual Father, to the point where she is inspired to write ‘messages from God’ which remind others of His unconditional Love.

Still, Suzanne reaches a point where she begins to question what she was taught to believe; she has so many questions that the church couldn’t answer, so she decides to write God a fearless letter asking all the questions the church couldn’t answer, and ends it by asking for “the Truth!”


Through a series of fortunate events she meets Charles, who sets her on a new path of enlightenment!

Your QUEST for “the Truth!” begins when you ask the right QUESTions!

Join Suzanne on her quest for “the Truth!” about sex before marriage, the creative power of her thoughts, her African ancestry, and the his-story of the religion she had been indoctrinated into!

Single, Spiritual…AND Sexual! breaks some unspoken taboos in a thought-provoking yet enlightening way that thousands of women and men can relate to:

“…It spoke to me on SOOOO many levels – it was as though you were writing about my experience at times. The church thing is SOOOO on point!!! While experiencing a range of emotions, I wondered, pondered, shrieked, gasped and almost wept when I came to the end!  And please God…any chance of meeting someone like Charles??” ~ Silverlox Fox, London

“…I must confess, this is the first time I will be coming across a work challenging a lot of the childhood indoctrination I grew up with, yet written in a pleasant, indisputable, un-put-down-able, and suspense-filled manner. Talk about intellectually-stimulating and pleasurable rolled into one!” ~  A. Ibiyomi, Nigeria

“It it felt as though I was reading my diary, I was like ‘has this women seen my dairy?’ Lol. I had so many mixed emotions while reading it there was moments of tears laughter and last but for most, Hope . There were several parts that I really identify with firstly your letter to God wow I  have asked those same questions… wishing you all the best and looking forward to reading more from you.” ~ J. Jem, UK

” …Once I got started, it was impossible to put down.  It opened my spirit and reminded me of a feeling I experience when reading Iyanla Vanzant…It is an amazing book and I would encourage women who are open to bettering themselves to read this. It is a truly beautiful (and realistic) depiction of a woman’s journey back to herself and to her God. This book provides a foundation which will encourage you to continue learning and growing long after you have turned the last page”  ~ Sher, London

“Wow! What a wonderful journey! Sistar your novel came to me at the right time in my life and I appreciate this journey. I’m an avid reader of non-fiction, and have not been this intrigued by fiction since reading all of the works of my favorite author, Toni Morrison. …your novel was a great threshold for the gateway to the next stage of my life. I am truly inspired for a lifetime of more spiritual love!!! ♥ I devoured every word into my soul and anticipated every moment of their love and cultural/spiritual development. You truly have a gift of inspiring us chocolate siSTARS! Much love and many blessings to you…There is truly nothing that can compare to Afrikan Love!!!” ♥   ~ Asma M, USA

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Single, Spiritual…AND Sexual! is the First Edition of my Self-help novel, which features my artwork and poetry.  After returning from 4 months in Ghana, I revised the book, added two new chapters (based on my experiences there), and gave it a new title.  Years 12 & 13 (the Sequel) are exclusively in the paperback, order yours here:

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