BHM Day 9: The Sex Craze

We are now in Libra season, which is the perfect time to talk about BALANCE. ⚖

Today I will talk about the imbalance in how we relate to each other as men and women.

Due to patriarchal religions, men have been led to believe they are superior, and that women should ‘submit’ to them, whether that be in the home, in the workplace, or in the bed.

Pornography is another tool which has been used to degrade women, and also to teach men to dissipate their sexual energy.

However, our ancient ancestors knew that sexual energy is a powerful creative force, and they knew how to transmute it in order to create things other than babies.

Now that I’m men-o-pausal, I’ve noticed that it takes a lot longer for me to build up my sexual energy after having sex, and because my sexual energy is the key to my creativity, I prefer to put it into that!

However, I would love to meet a man I can practice sex rituals with! See, when used correctly sexual energy can help you to create a new reality.

In Year Seven of Journey of a Sister I channelled a scene where Suzanne and Charles performed their first sex ritual. I must have woken up in the middle of the night, wrote the scene, and went back to sleep. The following morning I had no recollection of writing it; a few days later I was flipping through my journal, saw the scene and thought “This is good! I must include it in the story!”

A sex ritual is where you focus on something you’d like to manifest while having sex. The aim is to raise your sexual energy to your crown chakra before you orgasm. At the point of orgasm, you should both have a clear image in your minds of what he wants to MANifest. The seed of intention is then planted in the womban.

In the story, Suzanne (intuitively) took Charles through a guided visualisation while they were having sex, to help him build a clear image in his mind of the business he wanted to create. By sharing his vision with her in detail, she was able to build a clear image in her mind too. Every time he was about to ejaculate, she would stop riding him and wait for the feeling to subside, before starting to ride him again. This pumping action helped raise their sexual energy to their crown chakra.

The following year they made their first £1,000,000 through their business.

At the time of writing (2010), I’d never heard of sex rituals before.

After I published the First Edition (titled ‘Single, Spiritual…AND Sexual!‘) in e-book format on Amazon, I was doing a search for it (as new authors do) and another book came up beside it as ‘recommended reading’, titled ‘The Secret Science of Black Male and Female Sex‘. I was intrigued, so I ordered the paperback.

In this book the Author, TC Carrier, was explaining the whole science behind the sex ritual I had channelled!

It took Suzanne and Charles 8 years to reach the level of intimacy required to perform a sex ritual; the theme of Journey of a Sister is TRANSFORMATION; even their sex life transforms from lustful sex into sacred sex.

Nowadays, we are taught through the media and porn to have sex willy nilly (pardon the pun), with no sacredness to the sexual act. We don’t even realize there is a spiritual aspect to sex.

Wouldn’t you like to experience sacred sex?

As melanated people, we are naturally sexual and naturally spiritual. In fact, MELANIN is concentrated in our sexual organs for a reason.

Religion taught us that if we’re single we can’t be sexual, and if we’re sexual we can’t be spiritual (unless we’re married). My job is to put the two back together again (hence the title of the First Edition). Yes, we can be sexual and spiritual!

In the Second Edition of my novel I explained what ‘Fornication’ means, and it doesn’t mean ‘sex before marriage’! It actually has means having sex with prostitutes.

Many men are suffering from prostate issues such as low sperm count or even cancer because they abuse their sexual organ, usually from over-ejaculating.

And many womben are experiencing gynecological issues due to chemical reactions from products they use on and in their bodies such as tampons, and from having sex with multiple partners.

In Day 5 of this blog series The Serpent and the Tree of Life, I explained how eating figs are beneficial for both male and female reproductive disorders.

The spiritual aspect of having sex with multiple partners is also the reason many people are emotionally messed up; sometimes women think they’re trying to heal from childhood trauma, when in fact they’re trying to heal from all the men they slept with!

When you have sex with someone it leaves an energetic imprint behind. If you’re having sex with multiple partners, or if you’re having sex with someone who is promiscuous, you are in fact sleeping with all the people they’re sleeping with as well, energetically!

Then there’s the issue of energy vampires; if you have sex with someone and feel drained afterwards, they’re an energy vampire. Listen to my poem BEWARE THE VAMPIRE on Soundcloud.

If you’re in an exclusive relationship you should know how to share energy with each other; when one person is feeling drained, the other can share some of their energy to help bring them back into balance. Listen to my poem-song ‘The Preparation’ (written and recorded in 2009):

Your physical body and your mind must be in good health before you can think about MANifesting (or wombanfesting) your desires. (If you’re not in a relationship you can still wombanfest).

In Year Eight of Journey of a Sister I channelled what it means to become a ‘King’ or a ‘Queen’, which relates to the Crown chakra:

‘All men are gods, but not all men are Kings. To become a King, he must raise his level of consciousness to his crown chakra, located at the top of his head. This is the same for the goddess; for her to become a Queen, she must also raise her level of consciousness to her crown chakra. When a god reaches his highest level of consciousness, he can then use his ‘key’ to open the goddess’s gateway in order to MANifest his desires. A god can choose a goddess or a Queen to perform the ritual, but a Queen must choose a King, because the two can only go as far as his level of consciousness. It is therefore imperative that all gods raise their level of consciousness to their crown chakra, and become Kings.

Once a god has achieved Kingly status, he should then find him Self a goddess or a Queen; without her Feminine Energy it will be difficult to MANifest his desires, since the gateway to bringing things from the spiritual realm into the physical world is found in her.

By finding, protecting and serving his goddess or Queen, she will in return love, nurture, protect and heal him, opening the gateway to infinite possibilities.

Since I started ‘waking up’ in 2001, I’ve experienced both spiritual and psychic attacks to try and prevent me from getting this in-formation out. But now I walk in the footsteps of an army of ancestors, angelic hosts, and spiritual guardians. NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST ME SHALL PROSPER! I could do with a man who has a warrior spirit too! 😅

Yesterday I visited my friend Errol and his girlfriend (Errol helped me edit the First Edition of my novel). Their dog started barking and growling at me as soon as I walked through the door, but at the same time she was acting scared! I wish I’d videod it so you could see for yourself, because she was looking up above me to my right and left, and to the right and left side of me I told Errol she could see my spiritual army!

Religion was used to suppress our sexual energy because it’s where our power lies. If we’re not being misled to suppress it, we’re being misled to abuse it, with pornography.

Music videos dishonour the Black Womban, turning her into a sex object, instead of the symbol of the Divine Feminine that she is.

In the next post I’ll explain WHY the image of the dark-skinned Black Womban has been destroyed by the media, and how it is now being put back in its rightful position.

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