If I had taken my own advice, I wouldn’t have had sex with the EX earlier this year.
But when he called me up out of the blue after 5 years, saying he could ‘hear my voice calling him’, I thought he was being sincere. Partly because I had just finished watching ‘The Secret’ DVD, and he crossed my mind; I remembered giving him my first copy when we were dating, and wondered if he’d ever watched it. Then I checked my emails…and BAM! There was a message from him, coming via this very same blog! Obviously, I thought it was a ‘sign’.
I don’t know what came over me to be honest. It’s not as if I was that physically attracted to him. ‘But after two years of celibacy, I was feeling horny, and not wanting to sleep with just anybody…’ I thought he’d do. Better the devil you know, right?
My poem ‘Sex with the EX’ (which I wrote in 2007) would have been a good reminder for me, if I’d taken the time to listen:
It was like a replay of what happened all those years ago to make me write the poem in the first place! I’d been celibate for two years, my ex called me up out of the blue, and even though he didn’t tell me he was seeing someone else, it didn’t take me long before I realized I was wasting my time and inner-g. Us women are very intuitive, but sometimes we ignore our gut feelings. We want it to work so bad. But the thing with the ex is; if it didn’t work first time around, what makes you think it’s going to work this time?
‘So ladies, next time you fancy some sex and you think of your ex – keep your fantasies in your panties where they belong, and don’t try to turn them into reality…’
So from now on, I’m going to take my own advice. Next time an ex contacts me out of the blue, I’m going to tell him ‘Next time you think of me, don’t call me, don’t text me, don’t even email me. See I’m not looking for a fling, I’m looking for my King….’
Sex with the EX didn’t make much sense, but it certainly made a good POEM…
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